How many times does this happen to the average joe? Your walking along at your local college, grocery store, petsmart, etc, etc, and you happen to notice a very pretty girl heading in your general direction. Your blood pressure begins to rise slightly and you start to feel flush, a completely natural reaction. As she approaches, you both lock eyes. What's next? Well, that is completely up to you. To glance the other way or simply look down at the floor is a sign of submission.....definitely the beginning of yet another crash and burn scenario. You are displaying fear, hesitation, and self doubt to this beautiful little creature. It should seem only natural for her to submit, due to the natural order of things. Unfortunately, for our society, it appears that we have built up overwhelming amounts of fear in regards to rejection.
Next time this happens, remember that there is nothing real to fear. Make sure that the two of you make eye contact and this time.... DON'T BACK DOWN. Look her in the eyes and offer a simple "hello", or "good morning" or "hey" or whatever happens to feel natural at that point in time. I promise that you just did what over 95% of men would and will never do. A simple hello is a step in the right direction. Who knows where you might end up from there. Play your part in restoring the natural order of things by allowing her to break eye contact with you. Do not worry about whether you are coming off as a creeper or not. If you are even half-way well kept and smiling authentically, you'll do just fine. I promise. Girls like guys with balls. End of story.
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