How many times does this happen to the average joe? Your walking along at your local college, grocery store, petsmart, etc, etc, and you happen to notice a very pretty girl heading in your general direction. Your blood pressure begins to rise slightly and you start to feel flush, a completely natural reaction. As she approaches, you both lock eyes. What's next? Well, that is completely up to you. To glance the other way or simply look down at the floor is a sign of submission.....definitely the beginning of yet another crash and burn scenario. You are displaying fear, hesitation, and self doubt to this beautiful little creature. It should seem only natural for her to submit, due to the natural order of things. Unfortunately, for our society, it appears that we have built up overwhelming amounts of fear in regards to rejection.
Next time this happens, remember that there is nothing real to fear. Make sure that the two of you make eye contact and this time.... DON'T BACK DOWN. Look her in the eyes and offer a simple "hello", or "good morning" or "hey" or whatever happens to feel natural at that point in time. I promise that you just did what over 95% of men would and will never do. A simple hello is a step in the right direction. Who knows where you might end up from there. Play your part in restoring the natural order of things by allowing her to break eye contact with you. Do not worry about whether you are coming off as a creeper or not. If you are even half-way well kept and smiling authentically, you'll do just fine. I promise. Girls like guys with balls. End of story.
2/22/11
Im back
It's official. I am back on the scene. I had a brief stint with blogging awhile ago in the midst of a three week relationship hiatus. I guess that's a nice way of saying," I broke up with my girlfriend." For some weird reason, I decided to give her another chance. It is amazing how soon we forget all of the things that we disliked about a relationship and how willing many of us are to go back to that grind.
I'm not going back. Not this time. Seriously. When I made that insane decision to go back to the boring and mundane, I deleted my awesome blog, SVdog, because I felt that it might be a tad bit incriminating if she were ever to "stumble" upon it. In my haste, I even forgot to save my previous posts for a later day. Dumb. At one point, I even achieved the status of legend, with a whopping 87 readers in one day. I was well on my way to stardom.
I hope to shed some light on some of life's great mysteries and help you, the reader, along with myself, on this amazing journey called life. I am interested in all things interesting. I have been blessed with the ability to be easily entertained. I do not like where I live, yet I understand that life can be a test sometimes. We all have the ability to make the best of any situation or location. We can bitch and whine and throw in the towel and just plain give up. If that's what you would like to do, then be my guest. As for me, I'm going to make the tiny town of Sierra Vista, AZ my bitch. Big fish in a small pond is way cooler than small fish in a small pond..................
I'm not going back. Not this time. Seriously. When I made that insane decision to go back to the boring and mundane, I deleted my awesome blog, SVdog, because I felt that it might be a tad bit incriminating if she were ever to "stumble" upon it. In my haste, I even forgot to save my previous posts for a later day. Dumb. At one point, I even achieved the status of legend, with a whopping 87 readers in one day. I was well on my way to stardom.
I hope to shed some light on some of life's great mysteries and help you, the reader, along with myself, on this amazing journey called life. I am interested in all things interesting. I have been blessed with the ability to be easily entertained. I do not like where I live, yet I understand that life can be a test sometimes. We all have the ability to make the best of any situation or location. We can bitch and whine and throw in the towel and just plain give up. If that's what you would like to do, then be my guest. As for me, I'm going to make the tiny town of Sierra Vista, AZ my bitch. Big fish in a small pond is way cooler than small fish in a small pond..................
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